Fathers, Don't Let Your Daughters Grow Up Without Alice In Wonderland
Though we live in a society where women are granted and assumed to be the equals of men, somehow that notion still hasnít caught on in Hollywood. Most of our glass ceilings have long since been shattered except in our movies where, letís face it, women are usually second class citizens. Sure in our films strong female characters exist, but more often than not they only exist in the service of procreation or in the bettering of men. Sandra Bullock has an Oscar nomination for playing just such a character in The Blind Side: a strong, confident woman in a movie about how she made a man become a better football player. Or thereís Carey Mulligan nominated for her work in An Education, where she plays a young girl who chooses love over higher education. Itís only when it doesnít work out for her that she picks up a book and decides to plan a life. On screen, independent women are all too often only something that happens when they canít get pregnant. Or at least thatís the explanation offered for Meryl Streepís strong-willed Julia in Julie & Julia.
Movies about women who choose to think for themselves rather than accept their pre-determined societal roles exist, but these films are rarely accessible, especially to younger audiences. Instead your daughter probably spends her time idolizing Disneyís princesses, most of whom exist solely to service love. Itís a great way to teach your kid to put on makeup, but if youíre hoping for offspring with substance her options for real, feminist role models in entertainment are pretty sparse. Iím not suggesting you raise a daughter who doesnít shave her arm pits, but perhaps just once in awhile, a little balance is order.
Aliceís character arc sets her on a path where she must make a choice. Itís the same choice that Carey Mulligan made incorrectly in An Education really, but for Alice itís even harder. In the real world itís Victorian England, an era where women were expected to wear pretty dresses and get married when and where they were told. Wonderland only happens because Alice is at a crossroads. She falls down the rabbit hole right at the moment sheís about to decide whether to fit in, play the subservient woman, or stand up and think for herself. Even before she falls we know this is not a woman who would be content with the status quo. Alice thinks and speaks for herself. She believes in six impossible things before breakfast. But sheís a woman, and that means she should sit down and shut up, doesnít it?
Inside Wonderland something magical happens to Alice and Iím not talking about smoking out with the Blue Caterpillar. The Mad Hatter calls it rediscovering her muchness, but itís really about finding the courage to be the person she truly wants to be, society be damned. Inside Wonderland Alice consistently, even at her lowest of lows, stands up for herself and refuses to give in. Sometimes whatís happening doesnít make sense, but sheís a consistently strong character who is on a path to realizing the courage she needs to exercise the strength thatís already inside her. And at the end of the film when she straps on a suit of armor and goes into battle, itís not to protect a bunch of babies or to fight her way to the perfect man. Itís not even really to defend her friends. Alice fights for herself, for the freedom to be who she is. Once back in the real world, her muchness rediscovered, thatís exactly who she is. Absolutely Alice.
Yet itís not all message here. What Alice really is, is the ultimate father daughter movie. Itís packed with eye-popping effects and Tim Burtonís all too nearly over the top tendency towards the macabre, along with the pefect girly stuff to hook in your kid. Dadís will dig Aliceís fight with the Jabberwocky and the movieís trippy 3D and in the process, feel good about taking your daughter to something which wonít cause her to marry some convenience store asshole with a Camaro. Tim Burton knew what he was doing here, from the movieís poppy, tween Avril Lavigne credits song to its ribald sense of humor. Sometimes itís clumsy, sometimes itís silly, and because of that Alice in Wonderland isnít a great movie, merely good. But it is a great father daughter just sitting out there, waiting to happen. Donít let your daughter grow up without Alice in Wonderland. Things being what they are in Hollywood, there may never be another movie like it.
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