11 Dating Shows On Netflix: Too Hot To Handle And More

Alexa walking down the aisle in Love is Blind.
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Let’s be honest with ourselves - even though we all might be in loving, committed relationships, sometimes we just can’t deny that romantic reality shows are our guilty pleasure. Even if you don’t have a significant other, sometimes all you want to do is sit back on your couch, and watch others find love - or completely fail at finding it. It’s good TV - and luckily, Netflix has a plethora of them.

Whether you’re looking for a Netflix original like Love Is Blind or shows from other popular TV channels, Netflix has you covered with some awesome dating shows. Here are some great picks if you’re craving some good, old-fashioned guilty pleasure television.

One of the couples featured in Too Hot To Handle.

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Too Hot To Handle (2020 - Present)

In this popular Netflix original dating series, Too Hot To Handle features a variety of adults who are either engaged in meaningless flings or can’t form long-lasting relationships, who are all placed together in a house for four weeks and must go through several workshops, all while forbidden from kissing, any sort of sexual contact, or any sort of self-gratification - with the threat of a $100,000 cash prize decreasing in value.

Too Hot To Handle blew up on Netflix when it first came out in 2020, so much so that it received a second season not that long after. The show became so popular that now it has a Brazilian version on the streaming platform, too. To me, it’s certainly the guiltiest pleasure out of all the dating shows on here to watch - some of these participants are just ridiculous - it’s still a lot of fun. And now, there are three seasons to enjoy. 

Stream Too Hot To Handle on Netflix.

Zanab in Love is Blind.

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Love Is Blind (2020 - Present)

Another original on Netflix, Love is Blind follows 30 attractive singles from Atlanta, who are dropped into a blind-dating facility, with the men living on one side and the women on the other. The only contact they have with each other is through pods, two rooms filled with plush sofas, and separated by an opaque glass wall.

Love is Blind is definitely one of the most interesting takes on romance, and one I really enjoyed for some time Out of most of these shows, I really like how they talk about the idea of blind dating, and in a way where these contestants can really get to know each other without judging based on their looks, while it still feels at least a little authentic to who they are. There are three seasons out to enjoy and watch so far, so I’m sure there will be plenty of love to go around. 

Stream Love is Blind on Netflix.

One of the couples featured in Dating Around.

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Dating Around (2019 - Present)

I’m starting to think Netflix really likes making these dating shows. In this original, Dating Around follows different singles as they're set up on five blind dates each.

Dating Around is definitely the most inclusive of a lot of the shows here for fans who don’t just want to see hot, straight, white people for hours on end, and I think that’s why I like it a lot more. There are so many different sexual orientations and races shown, and all show different personalities that make the show easy to follow and like. 

There’s even a Brazilian version of this series out now, too, so that proves how popular it was. There hasn’t been a new season since 2020, but there are two seasons to watch and enjoy right now.  

Stream Dating Around on Netflix.

April and Jake in The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On reality series, Season 1

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The Ultimatum (2022 - Present)

If you thought Love is Blind brings the drama, wait until you check out The Ultimatum – also known as The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On. In this show from the creators of Love is Blind, the viewers follow six couples who are on the verge of getting married, and given eight weeks to decide whether they want to get married or not – and have the opportunity to  get married to other people within the social experiment. 

Yes, this series sounds just about as crazy as Love is Blind, and you will feel tons of feelings going into it because it’s just that kind of show. But something I love about it is that it really does kick the drama up to a ten and is enjoyable to watch. There’s a Season 2 on the way, which is also going to feature a predominantly queer cast, so that’s super cool. 

Stream The Ultimatum on Netflix.

Love on the Spectrum couple U.S. 2022 season

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Love On The Spectrum (2019 - Present)

In another Netflix original, Love on the Spectrum follows a group of young adults, who are all on the autism spectrum, as they look to find love within the dating world.

Okay, jokes aside about all these dating shows - this is genuinely one of the most light-hearted, wholesome, cute reality series I have ever watched. Unlike a lot of dating shows that primarily focus on just the sexual part of dating, or how many followers someone might want to get from being on the show, Love On The Spectrum is truly about love. 

What makes it better is that it doesn’t stray from its initial focus, and follows several lovely folks, all on the spectrum, who truly do want to find someone to love. And now, there’s even a United States version of the show for people to watch. 

Stream Love on the Spectrum on Netflix.

One of the couples in Back With The Ex.

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Back With The Ex (2018)

This Australian reality show is all about couples - and the chance to begin again. In Back with the Ex, couples who had previously broken up want to give their relationships another try, and we see if that works out, or if it’s a waste of time.

A lot of dating shows start out with singles trying to look for love, but what makes Back with the Ex a lot more enjoyable is that all these couples have already been together before, so they've already established that they had chemistry in the past. While these twosomes are a bit of a mess - believe me, some of the breakups were just bad - but it’s still interesting to see the couples try to find a way to make their past relationship work again.

Stream Back with the Ex on Netflix.

Sima in Indian Matchmaking.

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Indian Matchmaking (2020 - Present)

Another Netflix original series, Indian Matchmaking is a documentary television series about Sima Taparia, Mumbai’s top matchmaker, who travels across India, and even to the United States, to find men and women who are looking for a matchmaker to help them out and find a life partner.

Indian Matchmaking isn’t really a reality television show compared to many of the others on this list, but it’s still a show about dating that follows a specific set of people and what happens when they meet Sima. And, what really makes Indian Matchmaking a cool show to watch is the Indian culture that you get to see, one that I, as an American viewer, isn’t really exposed to that often. With two seasons to watch – and a third season ordered – you need to check this out now. 

Stream Indian Matchmaking on Netflix.

The main hosts of Say I Do.

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Say I Do (2020 - Present)

In Say I Do, this show follows several couples who are overcoming obstacles to celebrate their love, and get their ultimate dream wedding, designed by three experts in less than a week.

This show isn’t really about dating - it’s honestly about what happens after you find that person you want to be with for the rest of your life, as you can tell from the title. But, if you’re looking for something a little more pleasant to watch than the typical dating show that just focuses on dating struggles, then this is the one. Plus, some of these weddings are actually gorgeous and will make you start planning out your own, years in advance.

Stream Say I Do on Netflix.

Nina and Dianna in Dated and Related

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Yes, you are reading that right. This reality series, called Dated & Related, features several pairs of siblings or cousins who come to a villa together with the goal is to help their family member find someone to date. 

This show is really something, and while the title at first can be misleading, it’s a lot of fun. The Season 1 trailer is certainly there to make everyone feel uncomfortable, but at the same time, if you check out the show, the relationships between the family members will genuinely make you laugh, and the people who date have good chemistry Plus, the people on it are pretty cute, too – but then again, most people are on these shows. 

Stream Dated & Related on Netflix.

The main cast of Single's Inferno.

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Single’s Inferno (2021)

If you’re looking for a show that doesn’t take place in the United States, be sure to check out Single’s Inferno. This Korean show follows ten people, five men and five women, who are looking for love, but there’s a catch – they need to survive on an island and fend for themselves. It’s basically like Survivor but with love thrown into the competition. 

Yes, this show sounds as intense as it does describing it. It really took over Netflix when it came out and became a big hit, showing just how popular international shows are on Netflix. It’s funny because the only way to escape the island is literally to find love and become a couple, which makes the incentive to get into a relationship even bigger. 

Stream Single’s Inferno on Netflix.

The main contestants on The Single Wives.

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The Single Wives (2018)

Last but not least, this Australian dating show, The Single Wives, focuses on four women who were all formally married. Now, alone, they are searching for love and hoping they can have a second chance at their happily ever after.

While many dating shows focus on both men and women, I think I like this one a lot because it only really focuses on the women trying to find men. While there’s only one season of it, it’s a lot of fun to see which participants end up getting partners, and which are left still looking.

Stream The Single Wives on Netflix.

You could spend your time watching the best shows to binge on Netflix, but sometimes, we really all just need that (potentially cringy) dating programming, and a lot of ridiculousness to make us smile. Trust me, if you watch any of these shows, you will have a grand experience.

Alexandra Ramos
Content Producer

Big nerd and lover of Game of Thrones/A Song of Ice and Fire. Will forever hate season eight. Superhero and horror geek. And please don't debate me on The Last of Us 2, it was amazing!